 Why
visit a medium?
There
are times in all of our lives when
we need a little extra help with
direction, to provide clarity of
a situation, reassurance, understanding,
hope or confirmation. When
visiting a reputable medium this
is exactly what you should expect
to gain from the experience.
Be
clear in your own mind about what
you expect form your reading (sitting).
We are all looking for answers
to so many of our thoughts and questions
in life and decisions we have to
make. We all have dilemmas’ and
it is ok to ask for help with these.
Even business people will come for
a reading (sitting) looking for
answers on how they can to be more
successful and how to make the money
they need to survive. Many businesses
have been turned around following
a reading. It is possible for a
medium to be giving such information
from spirit.
It
is important that you do your research
and find out about the medium and
how they work before you book an
appointment to see them. Find
out how they work; do they use cards,
crystal balls, and sometimes tealeaves’.
Any of these methods can be
used by the medium to help them
to make a link with spirit.
People
may visit a medium to try and make
contact with a loved one that has
passed over. This does happen
for many people but you should always
go with an open mind and not be
disappointed if this does not occur.
In spirit there is no such
thing as time and it may be that
they do not come through during
this particular sitting.
What
is the role of the medium?
The
role of the medium is to mediate
between the spirit world and this
one.
To
give you survival evidence from
relatives and loved ones. Sometimes
you will be given a message from
spirit that you do not recognise
who wants to help guide you at that
point in your life (you may not
always be able to place who that
spirit is at the time of the reading
so take the information away with
you and ask another member of your
family who might know who it was
when you get home).
To
help you to relax and give you the
answer to your questions before
you ask them, it is the mediums
roll to tell you not you tell them.
To
give positive and productive messages
to you from spirit, at no point
should negative or depressing information
be given? This only causes
unnecessary anxiety and grief and
that is not what receiving a message
is about.
What
happens during a reading?
A
reading normally takes between 30
and 40 minutes and if it is any
longer than this you may not get
the best from the sitting. Be on
time for your reading, try and have
an open mind and relax.
When
you arrive to see the medium for
a reading you should expect to be
greeted in a nice friendly way and
be seated somewhere comfortable.
You should feel good about
the surroundings and not made to
sit in some dingy smoke filled room
because the reader is smoking.
You
should be able to look forward to
a reading, as it should be a pleasant,
helpful and positive experience.
A friend once said to me that
going for a reading reminded them
of being a child on Christmas day
bringing back the feelings of excitement
and anticipation and the shire delight
of not knowing what was going to
be revealed. Watching and waiting
as the gift emerges. That
is what is should be like when you
go for a reading.
It
is a good idea to write down (in
advance) any questions that you
may wish to have answered during
the reading as you often forget
at the time and may regret it later
on.
You
can be given so much information
during a reading it is also a good
idea to ask for your reading to
be recorded. Sometimes we
think we have heard something when
we haven’t and it is more likely
to be what we wanted to hear. Recording
it is the best way is to be able
to enjoy the reading and not worry
about trying to remember everything
that is being said to you at the
time.
At
the end of the reading tell the
medium of you were happy with it
and if you were not then share that
with them too. It is better
to do that than wait until you get
home
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